Blog: How coming to the UK and UoB changed my life for the better

Hi everyone! My name is Lalitha, and I'm currently in my second year of studying MSc Management at the University of Birmingham (UoB). I'm an international student from India, and moving to the UK has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life.  

In this blog post, I want to share my journey of self-discovery, independence, and growth since arriving at UoB. I hope my story inspires and motivates others who are considering studying abroad or embarking on a new chapter in their lives this September. 

Finding independence

Leaving home for the first time and moving to a completely different country was both exciting and daunting. I remember the mix of emotions as I boarded the plane – a blend of excitement for the adventure ahead and a tinge of sadness for leaving my family and friends behind. However, stepping into the unknown was the first step towards finding my independence. 

 At UoB, I had to navigate everything on my own – from managing my finances and cooking meals to figuring out public transportation. Initially, it felt overwhelming, but each challenge I faced and overcame made me more self-reliant. I learned to appreciate the value of independence, and I grew to trust my abilities to handle life’s obstacles. This newfound self-sufficiency has been empowering and has given me the confidence to pursue my goals and dreams. 

Personal growth through new experiences

One of the most significant aspects of my journey has been the personal growth that came from immersing myself in a new culture and meeting people from diverse backgrounds. UoB is a melting pot of cultures, and this diversity has enriched my life in countless ways. I’ve made friends from all over the world, and each interaction has broadened my perspective and taught me something new about different cultures and traditions.

Engaging in various extracurricular activities and clubs at UoB has also played a crucial role in my growth. From joining Skills passport workshops to working at the University as an EEF Project Research Assistant, these experiences have helped me develop new skills, discover hidden talents, and build lasting friendships. Each activity has contributed to my personal development and has made my time so far at UoB incredibly fulfilling. 

Overcoming challenges and building resilience

Of course, my journey hasn’t been without its challenges. There were moments of homesickness, academic pressure, and cultural adjustments that tested my resilience. However, each challenge was an opportunity for growth. I learned to adapt, seek help when needed, and maintain a positive outlook even during tough times. 

The support from UoB’s community has been instrumental in this process. The University offers a range of resources, from academic support to mental health services, which have been invaluable in helping me navigate the ups and downs of student life. UoB’s Careers Network provided me with tailored advice that clarified my career goals and offered practical steps to achieve them. The CV reviews and mock interviews were especially valuable, giving me actionable feedback and boosting my confidence for job applications and interviews. Knowing that I had a support system at the University made a world of difference and allowed me to focus on my growth and development. 

Embracing self-discovery

Living away from home has given me the space to explore who I am and what I want from life. It has been a journey of self-discovery, where I’ve had the freedom to pursue my interests, set my own goals, and make choices that align with my values. This journey has helped me understand my strengths and weaknesses and has shaped me into a more self-aware and confident individual.

Conclusion

In conclusion, moving to the UK and studying at UoB has been a life-changing experience that has made me more independent, resilient, and self-aware. The journey has been filled with personal growth, new friendships, and invaluable life lessons. If you’re an international student or considering studying abroad, I encourage you to take the leap. Embrace the challenges, cherish the experiences, and allow yourself to grow in ways you never imagined possible.